But uh-uh, honey
Lay off of my shoes
Don't you step on my blue suede shoes..."
-Elvis Presley, Blue Suede Shoes
"If the shoe fits, wear it!" I've seen so many brides struggle with decisions on what to do, what to wear, and what to say on their wedding day. One common thread that I always see weaving its way through each wedding is the desire to be unique, but more so- uniquely theirs.
"As yourself, does it spark joy?" -Marie Kondo
5 Ways to Make Your Wedding Day Uniquely Yours:
WHO: Invite people that you love
WHAT: Incorporate things that you love.
WHERE: Seek out a location that "is love at first sight." Did it make a good first impression?
WHEN: Think about your favorite season, and then maybe a month that is your favorite.
HOW: How to go about doing this? Start by thinking about how you want your day to look like, start to finish.
WHY: Because at the end of the day, this wedding is yours. It is yours to keep in your heart from now and forever. Shouldn't you be the one to decide how you want to remember it?
In an interview on on Evening Magazine the famous inventor of the ghost chair, Phillippe Starck was asked about how to start designing a space. What are the rules? He says don't worry about things matching or going together. Just use what you love, and it will take care of itself, becoming a space of your own.